Sweets: Tiramisu

Recipes, Sweets, Tiramisu
A few years ago while on a date with the hubby (back then boyfriend) we decided to order some tiramisu and with the first bite we were hooked.  Since then we have tried tiramisu at different restaurants we find ourselves at.  Saying that we LOVE tiramisu is an understatement but I have always been intimidated in making it myself.  Last year I decided that it was time to give it a try.  My first attempt didn't turn out as I had planned but we still managed to eat it. (Sorry, I didn't take any pictures of that disaster.)  The mixture never set and it was more like a tiramisu drink than anything else.  Fast forward to this year when I decided to make it once again.  As it turns out practice makes perfect or at least better, way better. 

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Life: On apartment living…

Apartment, Life, Moving, Quick TIps, Southern California

For the past few days I’ve been pondering if I should write this post but since this is a new month I’ve decided why not.  Let me start off by saying I like where we live but I have never really loved it.  We moved into our apartment about 3 and a half years ago.  At that time we decided on this place because it made the most sense for us.  The apartment itself is on the first floor of a nine unit complex, the rent is reasonable for Southern California, and the location is fairly nice.  I spent half of my childhood living an in apartment and the other half in a house.  Can you guess which one I prefer?  That’s right there is nothing like living in a house and having more space.  We don’t have any intentions of purchasing our own house anytime soon since I haven’t found a full time job yet but maybe in the future.  However, we have decided that we need more space and we are were looking for a two bedroom unit.  We need an extra bedroom because the hubby is telecommuting more often and he needs an office.  (Sh! Don’t tell him I need a need a craft room too and it will be used as that when he’s at work.) We are also looking for a place closer to his job because being stuck in traffic isn’t very fun.  (Double yeah for me since the closer we’re to his job the closer I’ll be to my family.)

Fast forward a couple of months since I actually began writing this post right before we moved out.  We have been living in our new apartment for about a month in a half and I’m loving every minute of it.  I miss our old city but I’m really excited about discovering new places.  The things I won’t miss about our old place are living next to an alley, having someone living above us, street sweeping tickets ( I was lucky enough to get one a couple of days before we moved out),  and above all NO more circling around trying to find a parking space.  What I will miss in our old neighborhood are our nightly jogs to the beach, living close to cute shops, and knowing all 9 tents in our building.  The things I love about our new place are all the space we have,  we’re on the top floor, all the amenities, parking, and that I’m closer to my family.

One thing we considered before moving was the price tag that came along with it.  We hired mover which we had never done before but was seriously the BEST decision we’ve made. I loved that in one swoop all our belongings went from one place to another, we didn’t have have to bother our family and friends to help us out and we didn’t have to lug everything up to the second floor ourselves. Overall we’re paying more for our current apartment but the benefits far outweigh the cost.  It’s all about the value for the money folks.  When we were looking for a new place we saw about 15 different units and neighborhoods before we actually decided on where we are living at now.  We never thought we would ever live in a complex that has so many apartments but as of right now we love it.  We never thought we wanted to live somewhere where we had to sign a year lease but right not we love that we are locked in on one single price. If you’re looking for a new place keep your options open and you’ll eventually find something you love.

Apartment living right now is pretty good and if it continues to be this good I won’t mind staying here for a while.  In the mean time if we ever decide to purchase a house I’ll share my thought with you on that subject.

Quick tips for looking for a new apartment:

  1. Make a list of things you’re are looking for in order of importance to you
  2. Keep in mind that rental prices are high right now and tend to go up higher during the summer
  3. Be flexible
  4. Don’t be blinded by the complex itself take time to look around the neighborhood you’ll be living in
  5. Google the complexes you are considering but take the information with a grain of salt
  6. Be openminded 
  7. Don’t rush unless you have a deadline to move out
  8. Think about things you’re willing to give up (For example, we gave up the beach in return for a gym in our complex.)
  9. Don’t be afraid to ask questions
  10. Try to visit the complex more than once and at different times 
  11. Live within your means. If you fall in love with a place please make sure you can afford it. 
  12. Keep in mind that moving is extremely expensive and stressful
  13. Be patient with yourself 
  14. Make sure you moving for the right reasons
  15. Please keep in mind no place is going to be perfect but make sure it feels like home
  16. Make sure you read the lease you are signing
  17. Make sure you’re credit score is up to date and everything on it is correct
  18. Don’t let them give you the hard sale meaning that its there job to get a place rented out and they will do anything to get that done. They will call you several times but don’t feel pressured to take a place unless it feels like home to you.
  19. Take a camera and a notebook with you.  Trust me you’ll forget the details after seeing several apartments.  
  20. Above all have fun looking for a new place.  

Quick tips for moving:

  1. Hire movers. Time is money.  We used Yelp to find ours but you should as your friends if they have hired some.
  2. Be organized and pack early.
  3. Label, label, and keep labeling. This will help you out so much when you’re surrounded by boxes and don’t have an idea where to begin unpacking.
  4. When you’re getting ready to pack have 3 different piles.  One for donations, one to toss and the last one to pack.  This is the time to purge things you don’t want to take with you.
  5. Have fun looking and be excited about your upcoming adventure
Good luck if you’re currently moving in or out!

{Date Night Fridays} Go Kart World

California, Date Night Fridays, Dates, Dating, Fun, Southern California

The hubby and I have never really stuck to the conventional movie and a dinner type of dates. We like to have fun and we are kids at heart so going on a date to Go Kart World just made sense.

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This place has a lot of kids during the day but at night you see a lot more young adults and couples. It might not seem very romantic to go to a go kart place but trust me if you can laugh together and act silly it really puts you in a great mood. We have enjoyed this place with my little cousins and on our own. It seriously is a fun place to spend the evening at. It can be a tad pricey if you want to ride the tracks a lot but you can have fun doing a few spins yourself and people watch the rest of the time. I had a blast getting to know the hubby here and can’t wait to bring our kids here one day. I hope you guys give this place a try and have as much fun as we have. Here is the Yelp review.

21830 Recreation Rd
Carson, CA 90745
(310) 834-3800


Note: This is not the only go kart place in Southern California if you live closer to Gardena you might want to check out K1 Speed.

Do you know of any other cool place to go act like a kid?


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{Date Night Fridays} The Groundlings

California, Date Night Fridays, Dating, Life, Southern California
The hubby and I love to L.O.L. and we are always on the lookout to find more places to do this. One of our favorite places to go when we need a little brightening up or when we just want to laugh until our stomach hurts is the Groundlings. If you love SNL style comedy and its comedians then you’ll love this place. We have gone several times throughout our 11 years of dating and every time we have been there we come out laughing. The venue is very intimate and you’ll feel like your part of the show. At times you are asked to yell out things for their improve section.  Don’t worry this place isn’t the kind that embarrasses you or has stand up comedians. They usually incorporate current events and on occasions some of their alumni show up and make special appearances. If you loved movies like Bridesmaids and actors like Will Ferrell you’ll love this place.

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Prices vary throughout the year but usually go for less than $20. Follow them on Facebook or Twitter and you might be able to score some free tickets. I’ve won free tickets on a few occasions and you guys know how much I love free stuff. If you don’t believe me that this place is pretty awesome check out their Yelp reviews. 

Please keep in mind that I’m not being paid or compensated for recommending this venue. This is just my personal experience and if you have a blast like we have spread the word. 

For my romantics out there: Nothing says love like being able to laugh with your loved one. 

What’s your favorite place to go get a good chuckle?

Giving Back: Why I’ve decided to be a bone marrow donor?

Bone Marrow, Donating, Donor, giving back, Life, Love

One day as I was scrolling through my Facebook newsfeed I came upon THIS link that one of my friends  had posted. After clicking on the link and watching the heartfelt video I broke down crying and once I composed myself I began thinking about how horrible it would be if I was in the same position. I would hate to find out that someone in my family or one of my friends had only 2 months to live and they could be saved if we were able to find a donor. This seriously woke me up and I realized that although I might not be the perfect match for Janet Liang I might be a match for someone else’s child, friend, family member, or loved one. My parents have ingrained in me their motto which is, “Haz el bien sin ver a quien” roughly translated to “Do good without seeing to whom.”

Right after watching the video I headed out to a local drive that I found through Be the Match but unfortunately the drive ended before I was able to get there. I ended up ordering a kit from Be the Match which I received about two weeks later and today I will be sending it off. Both my parents and the hubby have their reservations about me become a donor but when I began to explain to them why I was doing it they felt more at ease.

The kit comes with great instructions and it is very easy to use.  All you have to do is swab the inside of your cheek four times and send it back.  It takes about two months to process everything and that’s it.  Once you have registered you will be in a system and if they ever find a match they will call you up.



I’ve decided to share this story with all of you guys since I believe that the more people hear about it the more people might actually go register. I believe we are all connected to each other and we need to stop being so selfish. If you can’t or don’t want to go register then share this with everyone you know someone might be touched enough to go do the same thing.

For more information on Donating Bone Marrow please visit BE THE MATCH

For more information on Janet Liang please visit HELPING JANET

“REMEMBER 10,000 PATIENTS NEED BONE MARROW TRANSPLANTS HALF RECEIVE ONE” -Be the Match


Update 4/2/12


I got an email a couple of weeks ago saying they finally received my kit.  It will take about a couple of months to put me in the system.